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Monday, November 30, 2009

I DO know what I am doing

Just because I am a new mother does not mean I am clueless as to what my child needs or wants. I do know what I am doing. I know better than anyone what each cry, sigh, moan, grunt, laugh, squeal, mumble, smile, smirk, head tilt, jump, and grasp means.

I will not let anyone make me feel inferior or silly. I will stand up for myself and model for my son how to do so in an assertive way. My son will learn how to be confident and self-assured.

WHAT IS BEAUTY?

I'm amazed at how many women lack confidence and just continually compare themselves to others. I spent my teens and twenties never feeling good about myself, when I turned 30 I finally felt beautiful and successful. I lost that for a bit, but I got it back.

I believe every woman is BEAUTIFUL, GORGEOUS, SEXY, and POWERFUL. You have the power to be a DIVA. It all depends on you.
I've seen the "drop dead gorgeous" women who will complain about their body, heck they'll even complain about ten different body parts and starve themselves to be "pretty". Then there are the women who don't fit the magazines image of beauty but turn heads everywehre they go. Why???? Because they GOT IT. They believe they are beautiful. They know they are beautiful, they don't need others to tell them they tell themselves and others believe.

If you walk into a room, head up, back nice and straight, making eye contact you get a different reaction than if you quietly walk into a room, avoiding everyone's eyes, and hiding in the back. Try it.

I've walked into a room filled with woman thinner and taller than me, women who could easily be on the cover of any fashion magazine. I walked into that room and was the center of attention. I SWEAR!!! Why? Because instead of worrying about the way I looked and what I ate, I simply believed I was beautiful and enjoyed the party. I ate what I wanted, spoke to who I wanted, and said what I wanted. I was confident, therefore I was a beautiful, sexy, DIVA.

Enjoying Motherhood No Matter What it Brings

Monday, November 30, 2009

I DO know what I am doing

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WHAT IS BEAUTY?